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About me:

I felt it was time to update my about me section. As every person does, I have evolved and changed since starting my myspace profile. I have learned and grown. I have changed my goals in life. I have decided that life is about living rather than living by someone else's standards.
In this "About Me" section I want to be as honest as I can about the real me. I have been through a lot in my life and I don't deny even the things I'm not so proud of because they have made me who I am today.
I am a relationship oriented individual. I truly believe that love is real and its for everyone. My beliefs about relationships are ever evolving, but I have core beliefs that will never change. I believe that once committed to someone then you should do what it takes to make that relationship work. I believe in today's society people give up to quickly when problems arise. News Flash for anyone that doesn't know...relationships are hard work. A relationship is probably the hardest job you will ever have. No relationship is perfect. Like a beautiful flower you must nurture your relationship to make it grow into a healthy and lasting bloom of love.
Personality, I feel I am a very loving, caring, attentive person. I value people above any material objeot. Although throughout my life I have learned that you have to keep your guard up and be careful of the people you let into your heart. People can be deceitful, mean, hateful, and hurtful. Weeding out the bad ones sometimes hurts, but its necessary. I enjoy making new friends, but to be honest some people can’t handle my directness and honesty.
Now, lets get to the truth, with no bull. I'm very opinionated, direct, and honest. Most people can't handle my personality. I just see no point in being fake or sugar coating issues. While some can't handle it, some value it. I'm the type of person that will tell you the truth even if its hurtful. Not that I intend on hurting anyone, but I believe people need the truth sometimes. I've been fortunate enough to have some people in my life that told me the truth when I needed it. Even though it hurts to hear the truth, it can help you grow into a better person.
I'm not perfect. I make mistakes all the time. But I can also admit my mistakes. Anyone that says they are "perfect" is not only flawed, but also a liar. Nothing nor no one is perfect. In fact I hate the word perfect. The word has no meaning because the definition fits nothing in this world.
With that being said, I'm a friend to the end. I will go to the ends of the earth for my friends. I have very few people that I call friend because being a true friend is important to me. If I don't feel like I could call you from the side of the road at 3am in the morning and you'll be there to help, then I don't consider you a true friend. Friendship is a two way street. Its like being in a romantic relationship without the intimacy and obligations of a romantic relationship. I have one true friend that I love dearly named Linn. He would drop everything at a second's notice to be there for me as I would for him. He has proven this so many times over the years. To Linn, I love you, my dear friend.
To all viewers - I love you dearly and truly appreciate all your support. You mean more to me then you will ever know.

Who I'd like to meet:


People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person..
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a god sent, and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant

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  • Status: Single
  • Here for: Networking, Dating, Serious Relationships, Friends
  • Hometown: Austin Texas
  • Orientation: Gay
  • Body type: 5' 8" / Average
  • Ethnicity: White / Caucasian
  • Zodiac Sign: Pisces
  • Children: I don't want kids
  • Education: College graduate
  • Occupation: General Manger
  • Income: $45,000 to $60,000

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